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Our complex relationships

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A Human Relationship? What does that mean? In literal sense of words, it's basically the way two people are linked or interact with each other; but to us it's all just too messed up! Talking about the dynamics of relationships, most often it's about the two involved. So, in order to get a better understanding of the relationships, the most important and the foremost step is getting a good understanding of our self, because the only person we can be sure of, is our own self😌 and no matter how much of an ardent lover you might be, you are still crazy enough to think that you can change a person with your love, as bitter as it sounds, you can't change anyone , so at the end the only person you are left with, is yourself, so we better be focusing on changing that.  The first and the most favorite thing we all do here is forming relations with little or no wisdom to sustain those. And this system started as soon as we stepped on this planet, we were introduced to a supera...

Figuring it out

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Growing up , we didn't realize how words changed their meaning for us Words have not remained mere words, they have rather become emotions. Back in those days when sleep was happiness and not an escape , When birthdays used to be fun and felt like a festival, Who knew that being this excited about being born will soon turn into an existential crisis? From catching cold to catching feelings, from falling while walking to falling in love, When the word Ship to us was Titanic and not relation-ships and situation-ships, Oh I wonder how our playful selves turned to such serious, crazy overthinkers. That shiny face, spark in those eyes that dared to dream of the sky, And the only thing that stopped us was not having wings and not having a feature to fly. From that child for whom anything & everything looked like a victory, to these self doubt filled adults who have forgotten how to celebrate themselves.  To this timeline of our life where freedom, space & pleasure all look dist...